Thursday, March 11, 2010

Unfortunately Seperation

I'm sure that everybody underwent seperation , at least one time in their life.What did you feel at that time ?.Sometimes seperation impacts more on people than you think.While some feel relaxed when they leave , others feel very sad.There are two main reasons why people seperate from each other.

The first reason of the seperation is lack of love.I think love doesn't and without a reason.There are many problems which cause to finish relation such as deception, telling lies , strong pressure and jealusy.Distrust leads to these problems.If there is distrust between the couple , relation doesn't go on for a long time, because trust is basis of the relation.

Another reason of seperation is external factors such as family and society, and distance between couple.To some extend , it's compulsive leaving.For example , two people love each other, but their families don't want their marriage ,because their families don't come to an agreement or couple's careeres don't fit one another .If their culture , financial , conditions and status don't match , society don't accept their marriage ,too. Society wants the couple to be equal.Because of these factors , people are forced to be seperated.In addition , distance between them is another important problem.Due to their jobs, they must be seperated. As we know , people who are out of sight are out of mind.

In conclusion , people are seperated on a large scale an account of these reasons.Certainly these reasons are very important for your relation, however ; if you build your relation in strong ground , they aren't too much ifluence on your relation.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Both Impressive and Soothing

There ara two places that are both amusing and relaxing for me. One of them is Denizli which is my hometown, and the other is Bodrum where I always go with my family. At firs glance, they are very different from each other, but also similar in some ways.

In my opinion, Bodrum has the same features like Denizli's. Both of them locate the same region. Their climates are similar. Generally, they are calm. When I go to Bodrum , I feel comfortable as if I was in my hometown, because Bodrum!native people are friendly, and hospitable. They like guests. They try to help you if you have any problem. In addition, there is a cafe which is very sweet. I go there and watch people as I do in Cafe Balcony in Denizli. For me, they are calming. Owners of these cafes are very kind and companionable. You can have a fun time.

In spite of similarities, they have very differences. Firstly, Denizli is a city, but Bodrum is a country. That's why their population is different. Denizli is more crowded than Bodrum. Secondly, Bodrum is coastline. Its marina is very charming and attractive. You can go there to throw your trouble. It gives you peace. Because of being coastline,in summer, population of Bodrum increases. A lot of tourists come to Bodrum. Lastly, especially in these times, it is more gorgeous than Denizli, and I love more it. Whenever you go out, streets are full. You can see many people everytime. Instead of burning in Denizli, you can become cool in Bodrum's deep blue and cool sea.

In conclusion, these are two places that love so much. In winter if you want to activity, you can spend your time in Denizli, in summer vice-versa.

Marrying Foreign People

Do you imagine you will marry any person from another culture? Do you believe you will understand each other? I can't imagine it. It sounds very unusaul. I don't believe I understand him whose way of living, culture are very different from mine. I insistently consider I can't marry anyone from another country.


Marrying any foreign person is very difficult and inconvenience for me. I have lived for years in Turkish society, and he has lives, too. His way of living doesn’t match mine. According to his values, he wag grown up like me. At that time how can you decide to marry him/her? Now, what happen? Can you change your living style or can he/she change his/her? I think you can't change and vice versa. In addition, there ara many important disagreements. At first, his language is different from ours. Certainly language can be learnt, but, when you learn, disagreements won't end. One of them is family values. As we are Turkish people, we attach importance of family value. In accordance with our tradition, we direct our lifes. When you want your children to grow up with your customs, values, he wants the same.What will your children do? Another disagreement is religion. OF course, you show respect your religions, but sometimes you have serious problems in this subject. While people who live in the same culture can divorce how can you continue your marriage? Even his cuisine is unusual from yours. Meal he likes you may not like on a large scale. There ara many discrepancies in the same region , let alone different country. Some people think love doesn’t have any limit. In contrast, I tihnk it has limits in this matter.

When I consider all the pros and cons of marrying any foreign person. I must say definetely I can't marry anyone from another country.

My Pretty Hometown

I don’t know whether you came to Denizli or not.If you don’t come , I recommend you to come here. Denizli which locates west of Turkey isn’t a very big city. Generally, Denizli is famous for its cocks that crow long time, and it is known as a textile city. In addition, Denizli has many charming places and thingh that become integrated to Denizli.

One of the charming places is ”Pamukkale”. There ara travertines whose colors are snow-white. They look so glorious that when people saw them once, they coulnd’t forget their apperance. Pamukkale has hot water which heals many diseases such as rheumatism, skin diseases. There is special mud that is known as healing. Although it is beneficial, it smells very bad. In Pamukkale, there are many chic hotels to put you up. They are so comfortable that you feel yourselves as e queen or king. Windows of these hotels open amazing beauty of Pamukkale.Another lovely place is “Çamlık”. It is well known in Denizli. When you go there, you breathe fresh air and see a lot of tall trees which facilitate people to have a picnic especially in hot summer days. Everywhere is gren. There are tables that are made from wood. If you want, you can climb big Çamlık Mountain.I must tell about “İncilipınar Park”. People say it is the biggest park of Aegean Region. It’s so charming. It has a lake which is artificial. In the lake there are white and cute ducks. While people have a chat as sitting on benchets , ducks sound very pretty. Especially in nights, its illumination is attractive.Lake’s harmony with light deserves to be seen.As I said before, cocks are symbol of Denizli. In addition, Denizli is famous for dust and women. Generally in autumn, your eyes can turn red. Sometimes, you can’t walk because of wing and dust. Actually, Denizli’s women are beautiful. They have attractiveness. They are really pretty women. With their speech, behaviours, looks ad positions, they arouse your interst.

To sum up, Denizli is a very enjoyable city with its places, hospitable people who have very sweet accent, and nice habits. I advise you to came here. If you come, you won’t regret. Denizli is waiting you with the whole beauty.