Friday, May 21, 2010

My Pretty Hometown -( revised descriptive essay)-

I don’t know whether you come to Denizli or not.If you don’t come , I recommend you to come here. Denizli which is located west of Turkey isn’t a very big city. Generally, Denizli is famous for its cocks that crow long time, and it is known as a textile city. In addition, Denizli has many charming places and thingh that become integrated to Denizli.
One of the charming places is ”Pamukkale”. There ara travertines whose colors are snow-white. They look so glorious that when people see them once, they won’t forget their apperance. Pamukkale has hot water which heals many diseases such as rheumatism, skin diseases. There is special mud that is known as healing. Although it is beneficial, it smells very bad. In Pamukkale, there are many chic hotels to put you up. They are so comfortable that you feel yourselves as e queen or king. Windows of these hotels open amazing beauty of Pamukkale.If you go to Pamukkale , I'm sure that you enjoy a lot.Another lovely place is “Çamlık”. It is well known in Denizli. When you go there, you breathe fresh air and see a lot of tall trees which facilitate people to have a picnic especially in hot summer days. Everywhere is gren which seems impressive. There are tables that are made from wood. If you want, you can climb big Çamlık Mountain.I must tell about “İncilipınar Park”. People say it is the biggest park of Aegean Region. It’s so charming. It has a lake which is artificial. In the lake there are white and cute ducks. While people have a chat as sitting on benchets , ducks sound very pretty. Especially at nights, its illumination is attractive.Lake’s harmony with light deserves to be seen.As I said before, cocks are symbol of Denizli. In addition, Denizli is famous for dust and women. Generally in autumn, your eyes can turn red. Sometimes, you can’t walk because of wing and dust. Actually, Denizli’s women are beautiful. They have attractiveness. They are really pretty women. With their speech, behaviours, looks and positions, they arouse your interst.
To sum up, Denizli is a very enjoyable city with its places, hospitable people who have very sweet accent, and nice habits. I advise you to came here. If you come, you won’t regret. Denizli is waiting you with the whole beauty.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Causes of Stress Among Women

Most men think that women are always under stres, but they generally don’t think why it happens. Nowadays, stres has been popular among people.Most people especially women live as being under stres. When we ask why women are more susceptibility to be stres than men, there are three major reasons which lead to stres in women’s lifes.
One of the reasons is difficulties of houseworks and family troubles. At first women are mother so they should have many responsibilities on their shoulders. Being mother means dealing with every problem.They must be powerful.They must care about their children and husbands and houseworks, but sometimes they don’t have power enough to cope with these difficulties. Their efforts run out at the end of it. While they are looking after their children , they can’t do other things which are compulsory to be done , but they can’t struggle against them at the same time, so it can cause to stres to women. It is really difficult to deal with them at the same time for every body , of course it isn’t also easy for women.
Another reason is their hormones. Everybody knows sometimes women’s hormones change in their special days in every mounth. Their fluctuatıng hormones lead to be tension. Their moods alter easily at that time when they can behave like being depressed. For example while they are pregnant it can also happen. They can cry easily or they can be angry or aggressive suddenly. Their behaviors are diffferent from in normal lifes.
The last reason is hardship of their jobs. In addition to these stressful events, their jobs also lead to stres, because job means a stressful and tiresome thing, so people who work always come across many difficulties. Works don’t go like clockwork everytime, therefore contrariety can happen suddenly.While women experience these challenging things in their house , they also try to cope with their job’s hardship.Of course human being can’t fight with all of them an the same time.
All of the reasons cause to have stres to women. Certanly this stres effects to women extremely. Instead of increasing the stres, men try to decrease it. The less stress women have the happier life is for both men adn women.

Preparations Until Marriage

When the couple decides to marry, many preparations begin with excitement. Especially in Turkish culture it happens like that. Turkish culture has colourful and enjoyable traditions which continue until marriage preparations. We generally think that they are our cutoms and they have been realized for many years , so they must be continued. Until people start to wedding preparation, there are three main parts which should be done.
At first, after the couple loves each other and decides to marry , their families make a decision about meeting with rush and big arrangements. Boy’s family sets out but before they arrive , they buy flowers and chocolate so that eating sweet things cause to speak pleasantly. While they do these things, girl’s family also makes such as cleaning their house. At the same time both families wear smart clothes. When they arrive the house, people who are hosts welcome to them sincerely. While they are sitting and talking, the girl makes Turkish coffee. The coffee which is made to boy includes salt and bitter.At first glance, it seems nonsense, but actually it is meaningful. If the boy drinks it saying nothing , it means the boy is always with her despite trouble and pain. After that, the boy’s father says to girl’s father we want his girl with God’s order and prophet’s utterance, then the girl’s father says children love each other so they don’t have any word and they give their daughter.
The second part of it is engagement but until engagement, there are also many preparations, Firstly, the boy and his family make up bundle that includes pyjamas, dress and slipper for the girl, dress or scarf for her mother, shirt for her father. When they are making them, the girl’s family cooks delicious meals like tart and pie. Then both of the families wear their smart clothes again. The engagement is also made in the girl’s house where families and relatives have a chat and eat these meals during this time. Later any member of the families who is always the oldest person of the families wears rings to the couple wanting that their relation continues forever.
The last part is to g oto the boy’s house. After the boy’s family’s visiting, the family members of the girl go to their house. It is asked why it happens. It is realized to bring to him a bundle. Before they go there, they arrange a bundle which includes the similar things in her bundle. They give the bundle. The only thing which remains is waiting for wedding day.
When these things happen, people get into a flap and they are excited. It is said that although they require a lot of preparations which are so tiresome , they are wonderful feelings that should be experienced.

Types of Holidays

Do you have any idea about why people go on a holiday or what their aims are? They have many different aims when they decide to go on a holiday. Holidays are classified according to people’s aims.
One of the types of holidays which is a generally classic type is a summer holiday. Especially when summer comes , people want to escape from hussel suc as job stres, daily hassel or other problems whic we come across in our daily lifes. People want to enjoy in summer, because summer gives people excitement and energy . I don’t know exactly why it gives them , but I suppose its reason is sunny which burns people extremely , so people want to throw themselves toward sea which is cold and soothing instead of dealing with their jobs. In Turkey people people generally go to Bodrum, Marmaris, Antalya, Kuşadası which are coastline areas.
Another type of holidays is historical holidays. For example you are curious about history, so you can go to Efes to learn and see historical events and places. You can see the Mother Mary’s grave when you go there. In addition you learn Ancient Greek’s architectural, and you understand how they lived there. While you are visiting places, you also have a good time . That’s why people whose aims are to visit just like there not only learn historical acknowledge but also make fun as wandering places.
People also go vacation because of their desire about different culture and different language.. Generally going foreign countries is an example of this type. Many tourists come to our country to see places of Turkey and learn both our culture traditions. We see many tourists in Turkey because they want to rest and care about our culturel features. In addition, we can go to any foreign country so that we learn English. As w ego there we learn both how to use English and their culture such as their special day and what they do in that time. Moreover we can spend time pleasurely, and we can enjoy a lot.
To sum up, there are different types of holidays according to people’s various purposes. The important thing is to decide why you go on a holiday . To rest, enjoy or learn which one is your aim. You find your purpose and spend your time as you want.

Lack of Women Working-

Lack of Women Working


I don’t think there is any logical explanation why people, especially men, don’t want women’s working. When it is asked why people don’t want, they say many things to explain it. Whatever they say to make a statement, I definitely oppose to lack of women working.

I believe that working is necessary for women. Women must feel themselves as strong as men. If they don’t feel like that, they depend on their husbands or their fathers, and they are made to do whatever their husbands or their fathers want. Women can’t do anything which they want because of their fear, so they don’t feel themselves free. In addition, they feel useless which is the most tragedic part of lack of women working. They are forced to accept everything such as derogatory behavior which is behaved by them. For example, we hear from news almost everyday. There is a man who resorts to violence, but his wife can’t say anything. Not only he doesn’t permit his wife to work but also he can use violence as if he behaved that everything was normal.

In addition to this example, there is another side of it why women aren’t allowed to work inspite of their abilities. Women are considered as only mothers, in contrast; there are many things wihc they can do well. People who don’t let them usually think that. Despite of this idea, I object strongly it. If they are allowed to work or they have any chance, they will manage to many difficult jobs. Actually there are some women who are given to opportunity, and we see their success. They are both very good mothers and successful in their jobs. Being women doesn’t mean only doing household and being mother. It means not only caring their children and their houses but also coming off in many areas.
Today women start to work. As time is passing, number of women who decide to attempt is increasing day by day and it must be hopefull for us. I think when women enter these areas , it is beneficial for them and their lifes, in addition; they feel themselves as important as men, and they begin to gain self confidence which is helps them in many areas such as in family and in relationship. I believe strongly women have power enough to deal with problems in their work or in their family , so they must work according to their abilities.